Most men masturbate multiple times in a week. However, using your hand can get boring and the feeling is the same. A masturbator lets you mix things up. The masturbator is a handheld device that you rub over your penis, just like you would a hand. However, the device has ridges, crevices and feels realistic. You can purchase different styles of masturbators to experience different feelings, ensure sex alone never gets monotonous or boring.